Letting Go Of Control

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The Scripture says, “Jesus endured the pain of the cross looking forward to the joy that was coming.” When He was being mocked by the soldiers, beaten with whips, nailed on the cross. He was at a deficit. It looked like the enemy got the best of Him. People thought if He is who He really says He is, He would come down off that cross. He wouldn’t be up there defeated. All the circumstances said He was done. But God has the final say. He won’t let you get into a problem that He can’t bring you out of. The odds may be against you, but the Most-High God is for you.

God knows how to bring promises to pass.
But you have to stay open to how it’s going to happen if you’re set in having it one way, you can be frustrated.
God does things out of the ordinary, unusual. He may not bring your dream to pass a traditional way.
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I like to start with something funny. And I heard about these elderly ladies way up in their eighties.
They were driving down the freeway together when they were pulled over by policemen.
The officer asked the driver, ma’am, do you realize you’re only going 35 miles an hour?
She said, yes, officer, I realize that said, well, why are you going so slow?
She said, because that’s what the sign says. He kind of laughed and said, no, ma’am.
That’s the number of the freeway. This is highway 35.
And by the way, why do these other passengers look so terrified?
She smiled and said because we just got off highway 95.
Say it like you mean it, this is my bible. I am what it says.
I am, I have what it says I have, I can do what it says I can do today.
I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
I will never be the same in jesus’ name. God bless you.
I want to talk to you today about letting go of control.
God puts promises and dreams in all of our hearts.
We know we’re going to get, well, we know our business is going to succeed.
We know we’re going to meet the right person, but God doesn’t tell us how it’s going to happen or when it’s going to happen.
And too often if it’s not happening the way we thought or on our timetable, we get frustrated. God.
When is this going to turn around? When is my health going to improve?
How come this situation at work is not getting better?
We put God in a box and tell him how to do it and when it should happen and who to use if it’s not working out the way we think we can get discouraged.
But once you pray, once you believe you have to leave how God does it.
And when he does it up to Him, if you put a time frame on it and the method of how it’s going to happen, you’re going to be frustrated because God’s ways are not our ways.
He’s working when we can’t see it. Sometimes it’s taking longer because he has something better in store.
And one of the best things I’ve learned is to trust God’s timing and trust his ways, what God promised will come to pass.
But it may not happen the way you think may not be when you had planned.
If you’re trying to control the outcome and control the time frame, you’re going to live worried, you have to release control, release, having to have it happen your way.
God already has it figured out. He knows the end from the beginning, but here’s the key.
He doesn’t give us the details.
If you knew how everything was going to work out, it wouldn’t take faith if He told you three months from now, a big door is going to open.
It looks like you’re going backwards, but there’s a shortcut that’s going to put you ahead.
You would relax and say, ok, it’s all going to work out. Why don’t you do that?
Now, God has it all planned out.
He’s doing things you can’t see there are good breaks coming, healing, favor the right people.
They’re already on your schedule. If you release control, then you can enjoy your life while you’re waiting for things to change.
What’s upsetting you, what’s keeping you awake at night. God is saying release it to me. I’m in control.
I’m ordering your steps. I’m working behind the scenes.
It may not be good, but I’m going to turn it for your good.
The scripture says those who have believed in or into rest.
Once you believed, you don’t have to figure everything out. You may not see anything changing.
You’ll be tempted to worry. Stay at rest. When you’re at rest, you’re showing God that you trust him.
Maybe you’re believing for your health to improve, but the medical report is not getting better.
You thought it would have happened by now.
You could be worried complaining, but instead you’re thanking God, you’re declaring his promises. You’re being your best each day.
When you’re at rest, you’re in faith. That’s what allows God to work.
But if you’re upset over what’s not changing, worried about your finances can’t sleep because that child is off course.
That’s a sign that you stopped believing. You need to enter into rest. Come back to a place of peace.
You can’t trust God and be worried at the same time when you’re at rest, you know, God’s in control.
You know, all things are going to work for your good. You know what he started. He’s going to finish.
Well, Joel, I’m worried about my finances. I’m upset about the medical report.
When is this pandemic going to be over. It’s not a surprise to God.
He hasn’t brought you this far to leave you. Release the worry, release the frustration, release.
Having to know all the details.
There will always be situations that we don’t understand and problems that look too big obstacles that seem permanent.
That’s a test. Will you go through life worried?
Wondering if it’s going to work out, discouraged because it’s taken so long or will you enter into rest?
Will you believe that God is in control and that He will get you to where you’re supposed to be?
My sister, Lisa and her husband Kevin tried to have a baby for many years with no success.
And Lisa took all the fertility treatments and had a couple of surgeries but still couldn’t conceive.
Finally, the doctors told her that she wouldn’t be able to have a baby.
Lisa kept praying, kept believing year after year. She knew that God has the final say.
But at one point, she realized she was consumed with having that baby. That was her main focus.
And sometimes we want something so badly, it can get out of balance.
We’re not going to be happy unless God does it our way. You have to put it on the altar.
Don’t release the dream, don’t give up on the promise, but release control of how God is going to bring it to pass.
He may not do it a traditional way what you were expecting and anything you have to have to be happy the enemy can use against you.
But when you can say God, this is what I want.
But even if it doesn’t work out my way, I’m still going to be happy, I’m still going to give you praise that takes away the power of the enemy.
Hold tightly to your dreams but hold loosely to how God is going to do it.
A few months after Lisa released control, she received a phone call from a friend of ours in another state that has a home for teenage girls.
One of the young ladies was about to give birth to twins.
She asked Lisa and Kev and if they would be interested in adopting them, they didn’t have to think twice.
They knew that was an answered prayer.
A couple of months later, they were at the hospital when the babies were born today.
They’re beautiful young ladies in their twenties.
God knows how to bring promises to pass, but you have to stay open to how it’s going to happen.
If you’re set in having it one way, you can be frustrated. God does things out of the ordinary, unusual.
He may not bring your dream to pass a traditional way.
Seemed like Lisa was falling behind but then one phone call and she had not one but two babies.
She didn’t have to get pregnant. She didn’t have to carry the baby. Nine months.
God did it an unusual way. Are you upset about something? That’s the hand of God.
It hasn’t happened yet because God’s going to do something better than you think.
The delay, the disappointment, the setback, it’s not working against you. It’s working for you.
Release control of how it’s going to happen. God is about to do unusual things out of the ordinary, unprecedented.
You’re not falling behind, you’re about to receive a phone call. A good break, a promotion.
Your health suddenly turns around. I’ve learned, God doesn’t always take us down a straight path.
There will be detours, delays, curves these times when you feel like you’re going the wrong way, God, I’m believing to go this direction for promotion, healing freedom, but I’m going the other direction.
I’m in a pandemic. I’m seeing just the opposite. Don’t get set on the method.
The way you think it’s going to happen may not be the way God’s going to do it.
What you can’t see is on that path that’s going the wrong way. There’s another turn.
It leads to a shortcut that will catapult you ahead.
Lisa was believing for one child and came out with two.
That’s the way our God is where he’s leading you is going to be better than you’ve imagined.
The reason it’s taking longer is because it’s going to be bigger than you thought.
More rewarding, more fulfilling doors aren’t opening yet. You don’t know what God is up to.
You can’t see what he’s doing behind the scenes. People are against you.
The trouble hasn’t turned around your family member is still off course, don’t be discouraged by what’s not changing.
Your time is coming. The scripture talks about how there is a set time for God to favor you a set time to heal you, a set time to turn the problem around.
If there’s a right time, that means there’s a wrong time.
If it hasn’t happened yet, then it wasn’t meant to be. Instead of fighting where you are.
Why don’t you embrace where you are God. I know you’re ordering my steps.
I’m right where I’m supposed to be. Lord. I want to thank you that my set times are coming.
I can promise you this. God is not going to be one second late.
He’s not going to accidentally miss your set time.
And it’s good to be passionate about our dreams and passionate about healing freedom promotion, but don’t be so consumed that you’re not going to be happy while you’re waiting for God to bring it to pass.
Don’t put your happiness on hold until everything works out. This day is a gift.
Enjoy your life while God is working, enter into rest, not up tight, stressed out.
When is it going to change?
You have to pass the test of being happy where you are before God will get you to where you want to be.
If you can only be happy when the problem turns around when you have the baby, when your business grows, that’s going to delay what God is going to do.
You have to put your foot down and say I am going to enjoy this day.
This pandemic is not going to stop me, these challenges, this bad break. God, I know you’re on the throne.
I trust your timing. I trust your ways. In the meantime, I’m gonna live my life happy.
Imagine if Joseph had not learned how to release control.
God gave him a dream as a teenager that he would be in leadership, that people would bow down before him.
What if he had a preconceived idea of how it was going to happen?
Surely someone is going to show up at my house like they did for David and anoint me, King, pick me out of a lineup, show me favor and I’ll step into leadership.
But God does things unusual ways. He uses adversities, bad breaks, disappointments to move us into our destiny.
The trouble looks like a setback but really trouble is transportation.
God uses trouble to move you to where He wants you to be.
We think God only uses favor, good breaks open doors. We know that’s his blessing.
We thank him when that happens. But I’ve learned, God uses closed doors just as much as open doors.
He uses people that are against us just as much as people that are for us.
He uses rejection, betrayals delays to position us for promotion. We can’t see it at the time.
We don’t like it. It’s uncomfortable but it’s the hand of God ordering our steps. Joseph had this dream.
He knew God’s favor was on him. What happened?
He was betrayed by his brothers, thrown into a pitt sold into slavery.
Falsely accused, put in prison one bad break after another. But Joseph understood this principle.
He never complained, he never got bitter. I’m sure there were many lonely nights times where he felt forgotten, abandoned.
But deep down, he could hear that still small voice telling him I’m still in control.
I’ve got you in the palm of my hand. This is all a part of your destiny.
If he would have tried to control it, tried to make it happen his way.
He would have lived bitter, frustrated, angry every day.
He had to release the worry, release the frustration, release how he thought it would happen.
13 years later, he became the Prime Minister of Egypt. He saw that dream come to pass.
But when you study his journey, you see twists and turns delays, detours, disappointments.
Proverbs says, since the Lord is directing your steps, why try to understand everything that happens along the way?
Are you frustrated because you don’t understand something that’s happened to you upset over a bad break, worried because of a delay.
How do you know it’s not the hand of God leading you to your throne?
How do you know you’re not a Joseph that you are not right on course on schedule to see what God promised you.
It may not happen. Like you think God you his difficulties to position us for destiny and what you’re upset about is a necessary step that closed door.
The delay, it’s in, in you reaching your purpose. Don’t try to understand everything that happens along the way.
God works in mysterious ways. If you’re trying to figure everything out, you’re going to get confused, there are things that you’re not supposed to understand.
That’s what faith is all about. If that adversity was going to stop your destiny.
God wouldn’t have allowed it if that disappointment was going to keep you from your purpose, it wouldn’t have happened.
God is seeing what you’re made of. This is your chance to say like Joseph, God, I trust you.
Even when I don’t understand it, I’m gonna keep being my best. Even when it’s not fair.
I’m gonna keep giving you praise when I could be complaining, I’m gonna keep moving forward when I feel like going backwards.
Luke 22 Jesus was about to be crucified.
He was on the mount of Olives praying Judas came up with a group of soldiers and kissed Jesus.
That’s how they knew who to arrest.
Then when they went to take Jesus Peter, pulled out his sword and cut off one of the soldiers ears.
He was ready to fight. He wasn’t about to let this go down without opposition.
The other disciples said, Lord, should we fight? We brought our swords. Jesus said in verse 52 don’t resist anymore.
He was saying this is all a part of my plan.
I can’t reach my destiny without Judas kissing me, without this betrayal. I can’t rise from the dead.
I can’t bring salvation without these soldiers arresting me without me being crucified.
And it looked like the enemy was in control. The soldiers were getting the upper hand, taking Jesus away.
They didn’t realize they were taking him into his destiny. When we face hardships, the bad breaks the disappointments.
It seems like the enemy is in control. That’s when we want to fight. Resist, get upset live worried.
God is saying, don’t resist anymore, don’t fight it don’t live bitter. Don’t try to get even trust me.
I’m in control. I’m still directing your steps. Yes.
Resist the sickness, resist the addiction, but you shouldn’t fight everything that comes your way. Live upset.
Can’t sleep at night. The enemy didn’t get the upper hand. He didn’t somehow get control of your life.
God is still on the throne. The betrayal wasn’t fair.
God didn’t stop it because it’s leading you to your destiny.
You didn’t like the disappointment looks like the enemy is prevailing like the opposition is holding you back, but you don’t know what God is up to what you can’t see is on the other side of that crucifixion, so to speak is a resurrection.
On the other side of the betrayal, the sickness, the disappointment is a new level of your destiny.
Stop resisting and start resting. Sometimes we’re trying to play God. We’re straighten everybody out, vindicate ourselves.
Fix this situation at work. Why don’t you release control? God doesn’t need our help.
He’s not looking for some advice, hoping you’ll stop those betrayals. Keep those bad breaks from happening.
No, don’t resist anymore. Let him be God. You don’t have to fight everything that comes your way.
You can’t reach your destiny without a Judas kiss. Don’t fight Judas kiss him back and move on.
You can’t become who you were created to be without a soul being jealous.
Like with David, without a Potier wife, falsely accusing you like with Joseph without Akeem Nezar throwing you into a fiery furnace like the three Hebrew Children without a Pharaoh trying to hold you captive like the Israelites.
The good news is the opposition is not in control.
They are pawns in the hands of the most high God. He is ordering your steps.
Nothing happens without his permission. 1959 my father was pastoring a successful church.
They had just built a new auditorium. He was on the state board for his denomination.
Life was good, looked like he had a bright future. But my sister was born with something like cerebral palsy.
My father went to a hotel downtown to be alone for a few days, he read the Bible like it was the first time he ever read it.
He saw how God is a healer and how he wants us to live a victorious blessed life.
He came back and started sharing his new message of faith and victory with his congregation. Much to his surprise.
Some of them didn’t like it. It didn’t fit into their tradition. They ended up asking him to leave.
He was so disappointed. He had spent years pouring his heart and soul into those people.
My father could have fought it made a big fuss showed them that he was right and they were wrong.
Instead, he didn’t resist. He recognized that closed door was the hand of God.
He and my mother went out and started Lakewood in an abandoned feed store with 90 people.
Critics said it would never last but 61 years later here we are still going strong.
God knew my father couldn’t reach his destiny.
Staying in that limited environment, those people that were against him, they couldn’t help it. They weren’t bad people.
They were pawns in the hands of God.
You have to be mature enough to know when to resist and when not to resist.
You’re not supposed to fight every battle. God uses betrayals, closed doors, disappointments to move you into your purpose.
What if my father would have been bitter, stubborn, not willing to move God.
I know you want me to pastor here. He would have missed his destiny. Don’t resist.
Rest don’t try to control how it’s going to happen.
Release control be open to what God is going to do.
Acts 27 Paul was a prisoner on a ship sailing toward Rome, an angel appeared to him and said he was going to stand before Caesar on the journey.
They encountered a huge storm with hurricane force winds for 14 days.
They didn’t see the sun nor the stars and they tried their best to steer the ship to try to keep some kind of control.
But the winds were too much instead of fighting it, trying to force where they wanted it to go.
The scripture says they took down the sails and let the wind blow the ship wherever the storm wanted it to go.
When you’ve done everything you can, you prayed, you believed you stood in faith.
There comes a time where you have to do like them, quit fighting it, quit trying to force it to work out, quit losing sleep and release control.
God will not take you someplace where he won’t sustain you. How do you release control?
Quit worrying about it, quit losing sleep, quit trying to make it happen your way. Say God, I trust you.
I know you’re in control of these winds. They can blow me forward, backward, left, right.
But one thing I’m certain of where you take me is exactly where I’m supposed to be.
That’s what my father did.
Those winds blew him to Lakewood, the same winds that were meant to stop you.
If you’ll stay in faith, God will shift the winds and instead of blowing you backwards, they will blow you forward.
That’s what the scripture says. What’s meant for your harm? God will turn to your advantage.
Are you resisting or are you resting?
Are you trying to control everything upset because it’s not happening your way, trying to force it?
Why don’t you take down the cells and trust what God is doing? You may not understand it now.
It may not make sense yet. But one day you’ll see it was a necessary step to reach your destiny.
It looked like a setback, but really it was a set up. I talked to a young lady.
Life was going great until she was diagnosed with tuberculosis.
She was out of work so long that she lost her job. She couldn’t afford an apartment.
A friend gave her a place to stay and she ended up getting a job with the major airlines.
She was so excited, finally getting back on her feet.
Then the pandemic hit the airline, cut her work back to only a few hours a week.
She had to get an additional job working with the security company. One night, her car was stolen at work.
It was one bad break after another. She got a rental car and it had serious X M.
She was so discouraged. She said she needed to laugh.
So she started flipping through the channels looking for a comedian.
She came across our station channel 128 and thought I was a comedian.
She started listening, found out that I wasn’t, but she couldn’t turn it off.
Hope began to fill her heart dreams, started coming back to life, fresh vision.
She ended up giving her life to Christ. Recently, her company offered her the opportunity to transfer to Hawaii.
She had always dreamed of living there. It was a management position because she worked for the airline.
She can travel back and forth at no charge.
She said I look back now at all the things that happened to me and I realized it was all working for my good.
If my truck hadn’t have been stolen, I wouldn’t have come to know the Lord.
If I didn’t work for the airline, I wouldn’t have these free flights.
If they hadn’t cut my hours back, I wouldn’t have taken this job.
I wouldn’t have this new opportunity to move to Hawaii.
She couldn’t see it at the time, but the winds of that storm were blowing her to where God wanted her to be that difficulty.
You’re facing that trouble, it’s not going to stop you. The trouble is transportation don’t fight everything worried.
Why did this happen? God knows what he’s doing. He has you in the palm of his hand.
He may not do it the way you had planned. But where he’s taking you is better than you’ve imagined.
Psalm 55 says, cast your burdens on the Lord. Release the way to them and he will sustain you.
How many weights are you carrying around?
The weight of worry, the weight of what you don’t understand the weight of.
How am I going to make it through this tough season. There’s something you have to do.
God is not going to take the burden away.
You have to release the worry, release the frustration, release, having to figure it out, come back to a place of peace.
The right attitude is God. My life is in your hands.
I commit my dreams, my family, my finances, my health to you and I’m not going to fight everything.
I don’t like, I’m not going to live upset when it doesn’t go my way.
I know you’re working all things for my good. I trust your timing. I trust your ways.
When you have believed you enter into rest. I’m asking you to stop resisting and start resting.
If you release control, I believe and declare weights that have burdened you down are lifting off of you right now.
God is about to shift the winds of that storm instead of blowing you backwards, it’s going to blow you forward.
Promotion is coming, healing is coming freedom, the fullness of your destiny in jesus’ name.
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