The Pain of Rejection | Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer

Finding Healing After Rejection: Embracing God’s Unfailing Love

Rejection is one of life’s deepest wounds. Whether it comes from a friend, a parent, a spouse, or even a church community, it cuts into the core of who we are. Many of us know the sting of being overlooked, betrayed, or dismissed. I certainly do. I grew up with rejection—my father abused me, and my mother turned away when I needed her most. Those early wounds left me with what I call a “root of rejection,” coloring every part of my life.

But here’s the truth: rejection does not have to define you. Jesus Himself was despised and rejected, and yet He walked in perfect peace because He never doubted His Father’s love. That’s our key too—healing begins when we stop chasing approval from people and start resting in God’s acceptance.

When others fail us, God doesn’t. People may disappoint you, but He never will. He uproots the rotten roots of rejection and replants us as “trees of righteousness” (Isaiah 61). Instead of bitterness, He offers beauty for ashes, joy for mourning, and peace for heaviness.

I know what it’s like to let fear of rejection block healthy relationships. I even punished my husband Dave for hurts other men caused me. But God spoke to my heart: “I’m not asking you to trust him; I’m asking you to trust Me with him.” That truth set me free. Healing happens when we stop expecting people to give us worth and let God be our source.

And maybe that’s where you are today—hurt, withdrawn, or even rejecting yourself. But remember: you are chosen, redeemed, and deeply loved by God. He didn’t make a mistake when He created you. Stop comparing yourself to others. Stop keeping a running list of your flaws. Instead, see yourself as God sees you—unique, valuable, and His.

Rejection doesn’t have to be the end of your story. Let God heal those broken places. Make peace with yourself, forgive yourself, and open your heart to love again. His acceptance is greater than any rejection this world can give.

You are not unwanted. You are His.