Hello everyone, my name is Priscilla, and I am so glad you are here and joining me for this conversation. This is always a wonderful opportunity for us to talk about the things that matter most in life, relationships, and personal growth. You have tuned in at exactly the right time because today we are sitting down with a panel of articulate, thoughtful, and engaging men who are ready to answer the questions women have always wanted to ask.

We are diving into the topics many women wonder about but may never have had the chance to discuss openly. Have you ever wanted to look at the man in your life and ask, “What are you thinking?” or “Why do you do that?” Today, we are asking those questions for you, with honest answers designed to help you understand men a little better.

Joining the conversation are an incredible group of men, including gospel recording artist Anthony Evans Jr., Michael Boggs, my husband Jerry Shirer, writer and speaker Carlos Whitaker, and comedian Michael Jr. Their unique perspectives make this discussion both insightful and entertaining.

We began by asking what assumptions women often make about men that are simply untrue. One of the first responses challenged the stereotype that men are one-dimensional or only focused on a few predictable things. Men are often categorized as simple thinkers, but in reality, they can be thoughtful, emotional, and multifaceted.

Another major topic was communication. Many women wonder why men do not always open up emotionally. One perspective shared was that many boys grow up hearing messages like “Don’t cry” or “Be tough,” which can shape how they express emotions later in life. Then, as adults, they are suddenly expected to communicate deeply and vulnerably. Understanding that background can help women approach communication with more grace and patience.

So how can a woman encourage meaningful conversation with the man in her life? One helpful suggestion was to avoid creating pressure with statements like, “We need to talk.” Instead, conversation often happens more naturally while doing something together, such as taking a walk, playing a sport, driving, or sharing an activity he enjoys. Men may open up more easily when connection happens in a relaxed environment rather than a formal setting.

The discussion then turned to single women and dating. What behaviors can unintentionally push men away instead of attracting them? Several of the men agreed that being overly aggressive, trying too hard, or appearing inauthentic can be a turnoff. Confidence, however, was described as deeply attractive. A woman who knows who she is, especially in her faith and identity, stands out in the best way.

Many single women also wonder why men do not pursue relationships as intentionally as they once did. The panel acknowledged that there are many men today who have become passive or entitled, expecting relationships to come easily without effort. At the same time, men often ask where the women are who are grounded, genuine, and serious about commitment. Both sides are looking, but many are longing for authenticity.

When asked what qualities would make a man desire marriage and commitment, the answers were revealing. Confidence in identity, emotional and spiritual maturity, and a sense of purpose were all mentioned. A woman who is secure in who she is, capable of standing strong in her faith, and passionate about building a home and family can be incredibly compelling.

The question of physical attraction also came up. The men were honest in saying that physical appearance is often what first catches attention. However, they made it clear that beauty alone is not what sustains interest. Character, depth, intelligence, and spiritual maturity are what transform attraction into lasting connection.

For married couples, the conversation shifted toward keeping passion and friendship alive. One recurring theme was that many couples stop dating after marriage. Life gets busy, responsibilities increase, and connection can fade into routine. But continuing to spend intentional time together, asking questions, laughing, and learning about each other keeps the relationship strong.

Another key insight was that men are deeply drawn to women who are thriving in their God-given purpose. Whether it is leading, creating, serving, building a career, caring for a family, or using their gifts, there is something incredibly attractive about a woman fully alive in who she was created to be.

The panel also emphasized the importance of friendship. Men do not only want romance. They want companionship, someone they can laugh with, talk with, and share life with. When a woman takes interest in what matters to him, whether it is sports, hobbies, goals, or daily life, it communicates care and builds intimacy.

At the heart of it all was one beautiful principle: healthy relationships thrive when both people are trying to out-serve one another. Love grows when each person pays attention, values the other, and seeks to meet needs with kindness and respect.

This conversation moved quickly, but it was filled with practical wisdom. And this was only part one. There is still more to discuss, including male ego, encouragement, conflict, nagging, intimacy, and what truly builds a strong relationship.

If there is one takeaway from today, it is this: men are not as mysterious as they sometimes seem. They want to be respected, understood, appreciated, and deeply connected just as women do. When both sides learn to listen, serve, and grow together, relationships can become stronger than ever.