How Are You Handling Worry? | Victoria Osteen

Worry moves us away from God’s power, but worship draws us to Him. When you’re tempted to worry, choose to praise instead!

Hi. This is Victoria. Thank you so much for downloading this podcast.
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The other day, uh, I got a phone call and the voice on the other end of the phone said, Victoria, I gotta tell you something, but don’t worry about what I’m gonna tell you.
Well, automatically, my worry was kicked in. That was my first response. I thought, oh my gosh.
What do I have to worry about? You see, that’s what happens sometimes.
Our worry automatically kicks in without us even knowing it.
We just worry when a concern or a care comes into our life.
Now this particular problem was not huge.
It wasn’t monumental, but it was a problem all the same.
It was something that needed to be resolved.
So I had to push pause for a moment and make a decision.
Was I going to let this concern overtake me?
Cause my mind to just spin out of control, fret, and worry until the problem has resolved itself, was I gotta ruin my entire day because of this concern, or was I going to say, god, you gotta help me with this situation.
God, I gotta present this to you. You know everything about me.
You said you’d fight my battles for me.
Now, god, I am giving this to you, and I’m gonna try to rest and hear everything you would want me to hear from you.
You see, we have to make this choice. How are we going to handle this thing called worry.
Are we going to just work it in our minds?
You know, sometimes I when I worry, it’s like I’m really doing something.
I’m just working it working working it in my mind.
I heard worry was, uh, a lot like sitting in a rocking chair.
You’re doing something but it’s getting you nowhere.
We’re just working it and working it and working it in our minds.
And that’s so unproductive My question today is, how are you handling worry?
Because how we handle worry and stress is gonna make all the difference in our life.
There’s 2 sisters in the Bible. Named Mary and Martha. You can find their story in Luke.
Mary and Martha, 2 sisters. They had a brother They were obviously from what the scholars say, well-to-do people.
So they had a lot going on in their life. They had money to manage.
They had a home to manage. They had a lot of things happening.
One day, Jesus came to their home. He was going to stay with them.
He was going to fellowship with them. I’m sure they were so excited.
I’m sure that everybody in the town knew, hey, Jesus is coming over to my house because this was a very important person.
So I’m sure they were preparing. They were getting everything just perfect for Jesus.
Jesus came to their home.
And as they were fellow shipping and as they were enjoying Jesus, Jesus noticed something about Martha.
She was buzzing around She was working it, working it, working it. And he said to her, Martha.
Martha, why are you so anxious and troubled about so many things.
You see, he had observed Martha as as they were in this but in contrast, here’s her sister Mary.
Now Mary what had as much responsibility as Martha did But Mary said, I’m gonna take this opportunity when all my busyness and all the concerns that I have to just linger here with Jesus because he’s at my house today.
I wanna sit at his feet I’m gonna pour out my heart to him so he can pour in his thoughts to me.
You see, Martha was so disturbed that her sister would have the audacity to sit at the feet of Jesus when there was so much to do.
That she said, Jesus, you need to tell my sister to come help me.
She needs to get up and she needs to get in this kitchen. There’s the emails to answer.
There’s stuff on the stove. The kids needed to be taken care of.
There’s a bunch of stuff to do, and she needs to get up and she needs to help me.
Can you believe she would even say that to her guest of honor?
He said to her, Mary has chosen the one important thing.
She’s chosen that one thing she’s chosen the better way.
Now let me just tell you this right now.
He said there’s one important thing there’s a better way.
Now he was very much aware of the legitimate concerns that these women had.
The Bible says that Jesus said, in this world, you’re gonna have trouble. You’re gonna have hardship.
You’re gonna have some things that come against you, but be of good cheer.
I have already overcome the world. Be a good cheer. I’ve already overcome the world.
I guess when you look at that scripture, you can say easy for you to say Jesus.
You’re god. I still had these troubles and these concerns.
But this is what he was saying.
He wasn’t saying that you shouldn’t take your responsibility seriously.
He wasn’t saying that there weren’t legitimately things to be done.
He was saying there’s one important thing, and it’s the better way.
What he was saying is all these concerns, all these crisis all these things that are coming against you, you need to come hang around at my feet, linger in my presence because, see, that’s the one important thing that’s gonna help you get through.
That’s the better way to handle worry and stress.
That’s the better way to handle worry and stress.
You see, I believe that Mary somehow figured out the better way, and she did it It wasn’t that she was lazy.
It wasn’t that she didn’t care. Mary said, look, this is my chance right now.
To empty out the concerns and to put in all that god is.
You see, that’s the better way.
Have you ever planned a birthday party or a holiday celebration at your house or or some gathering and you were so stressed out that you made your own self miserable?
And maybe some of your friends and family as well, there’s a better way to handle the stresses of life.
The word worry comes from an old English word in the 1500 that meant to strangle to strangle I think that’s an amazing interpretation of that word because worry and stress literally chokes the fun out of life.
It literally pressures us in every relationship that we have. It steals our joy Think about it.
Jesus was at Martha’s house. She couldn’t even enjoy the fact that Jesus was there.
She missed the whole beauty of the moment. She couldn’t calm down, relax, and be peaceful.
She allowed the stress that was going on in her mind to strain the relationship with her own sister.
See, it was an attitude that changed. Worry doesn’t change anything, but your personality.
It changes your disposition. It doesn’t make the situation better.
Actually, it makes the situation worse.
I worked with a woman, uh, several years ago, and she had some legitimate concerns in her life.
And I could see how it was affecting her entire life.
Her son was was in the military, and he had been deployed to another country.
She was extremely concerned about his his well-being and if he was gonna make it and how things were going.
She was so concerned and so worked up that I saw it begin to change her disposition.
Change her personality, she could hardly even function at work.
And I said to her, I said, look, there’s gotta be a better way to handle this situation.
I mean, he is there. There is not a thing that you can do about it.
You’ve got to come to this place of peace and rest in the lord.
So I began to pray with her. And then I began to make some suggestions.
I said, look, you need to get some scriptures. You need to have them ready.
Just as your as your warfare, when these thoughts start strangling your joy and your peace, you need to write out some declarations When you feel that tension coming against you, you need to say, god, thank you that my son is in the palm of your hand.
Thank you, father, that no weapon formed against him will prosper.
Father, thank you, your angels have charge over him to keep him in all of his ways.
He won’t even dash his foot against the stone, but he’ll tread upon the lion and the cobra.
The young lions shall heat trample under foot Thank you, father.
You put a bloodline around him that the enemy cannot cross.
Father, I thank you, lord, that my son will come home safely.
I began to see her put this into practice.
Little by little, she began to take control over that worry and I could see the strength come back.
I could see her focus and her resolve come back.
She began to praise god in the midst of her fear and her torment, and it made all the difference in her life.
You see, worry pulls us away from god’s power, but worship and praise draws us to him, and it changes the situation.
I have a good news to report 6 years, serving in the military, and her son came home.
Safely. He came home safely. Because he worries a weight.
He weighs us down. Because of this to not be productive.
In fact, the Bible says, lay aside every weight that would so easily buchet us. Come on us.
So you have to lay it aside because it says that you have to run with purpose in every step.
And when you are weighed down, you can’t run.
My sweet friend was so rayed down, she couldn’t hardly get to work much less run.
You see, when she began to lay aside that weight, she was able to run out her purpose See, her prayers, her intercession for her son was much more powerful than her worry.
When she talked to him on the phone, she could say son I wanna tell you I’m praying for you.
The angels of the lord have charge over you. You walk out and you be bold with confidence.
Know that god almighty is looking after you. She could encourage him to pray for himself.
You see, when she began to lay aside the wait and run with purpose, she was way more effective.
There’s a technique that I use, and I’ve used it for years, and it works for me.
You just gotta find something that works for you. Right?
So when I had these concerns and these troubles, I imagine a big helium balloon, big beautiful, blue, red, red balloon.
It’s a power color. And I began to put those troubles in that balloon And I imagine myself holding that balloon by the string, holding it out in front of me with those troubles, and I look at that balloon And I let it go and I release it to god.
And I say, god, thank you that you’re bigger than all these troubles.
Thank you that you love me and that you said you’d perfect those things that concern me.
So I’m gonna give them to you. These troubles are just gonna go right at your feet, Jesus.
You’re gonna take care of them.
You see, sometimes I have to admit sometimes I have to let go of a whole bouquet of balloons.
Do what you gotta do.
Do what you gotta do to release the worry and the care because Jesus will sustain you when you release it to him.
Listen, if you feel the pressure, the strangle hold of worry coming on you, even if it’s automatic, push the pause button.
Let’s be like, Mary. Let’s take a lesson from this woman, and let’s sit at his feet.
Let’s linger there for a while.
Let’s empty out the concerns so that we’ll have room to receive his goodness, his thoughts towards us, his wisdom, his joy.
Listen. Wait. Is only gonna weigh you down.
But when you let it go to him, all things can be new again. Amen?
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