Becareful who you fall In love with 

Becareful who you fall In love with | Billy Graham sermons #billygraham

Dear Lord,
Today…….I am asking all my prayer warriors to say a prayer that may help others. So many people are hurting right now. Many are struggling with finances and need jobs. Some are facing foreclosure and don’t even know how they are going to make it from week to week.. Many are lonely. . Many are heartbroken. . Many are facing sickness and health is fading. . Some are dealing with difficult family members. Many have lost HOPE.. Tonight, let us put our prayers and faith together decree and declare breakthrough over our families. Financial miracles WILL take place. Jobs WILL be found. Our Bodies WILL be made whole & sickness WILL flee. Marriages and relationships WILL be restored. Family members WILL find Jesus. Heartbreaks WILL be healed. JOY WILL be restored and HOPE WILL be found. In Jesus Name. Amen!!!!!! Keep God First…….

You be careful who you go with and fall in love with.
Be sure that he or she is God fearing and loves Christ.
The scripture says, be not unequally yoked together. How many of you have tried it and failed?
There must be a spiritual oneness.
There are three people that make up a marriage, the husband, the wife and God and be sure God is in your marriage.
You see so many are marrying someone with whom they have have a very little chance of having a successful marriage.
17 magazine made a survey some time ago of young men and they asked the young men many questions and one of the questions was, what do you want your girlfriend to have on the first date?
And the number one answer was a good figure.
I would say the number one answer as far as I’m concerned would be to love the Lord with all her heart and all her mind.
Many marry without being aware of the ideals and the goals which God has set for marriage.
You see God planned marriage for people with some maturity.
Now you can be mature when you’re 17.
You can be mature when you’re 18 and you can be absolutely immature. At 40.
I see some little teenage, 40 year olds trotting around and there are many of them.
The scripture says for this cause shall a man leave his father and his mother?
You must be people who are ready to emotionally leave home.
Now you think about that. We’re always to love our parents.
I don’t care where you go to the ends of the earth. You are to love your parents.
You are to confer with your parents. You are to honor your parents. You are to enjoy your parents.
But when you get married, you must realize that they can, that you can never again depend on them as you did.
When you were little Children, many parents ruin the marriage of their Children by refusing to turn them loose.
Learn when to turn them loose for this cause shall a man leave?
And his wife must be first.
The husband must be first while still honoring and loving and seeking the advice in the counsel of the parents and the parents must learn how to turn loose.
And when you turn them loose, I’m gonna tell you something.
When you turn them loose, they’ll come back to you closer than ever as adults and you’ll enjoy them as much as you ever did.
And then God wants marriages to be permanent until death.
Do us part? Many people enter the marriage vow without any idea.
That this is for, keeps a young man at the marriage alter thinking to himself if this doesn’t work out, I’ll get a divorce.
Yes. Tensions are going to come.
There’s going to be that adjustment period and you keep adjusting the rest of your life, there’ll be problems, there will be disagreements but you are to accept each other’s faults.
Your wife is not perfect and your husband is not perfect.
You found that out after about two days, that first morning you saw her in Curley’s and that first morning when she saw you get up bleary eyed and it’s not always romantic, but we are to be together in a relationship that God has formed.
We become one flesh and many people that have been married for many years have loved each other so much and been together so much and know each other so well that they begin to look like each other.
That’s actually true. People tell me that I look like Ruth.
If that’s true, I’m getting muddy good looking and I’ll tell you when I haven’t seen her in two weeks, she looks better than ever.
But there must be a lifetime commitment.
When you come to Christ, it’s forever, repeat it to yourself forever, forever, forever till death.
Do us part. Don’t ever entertain the idea of separation and divorce.
If you know Christ, he can hold you together.
There is no problem that you face that cannot be solved by the Lord Jesus Christ.
And then God’s ideal is for the husband and the wife to be faithful to each other, faithful to each other.
I read the other day that 70% in a survey, 70% of the men’s it indicated were cheating on their wives.
I just can’t believe that statistic. I, I cannot allow myself to believe it.
It didn’t say how many wives cheated on their husbands.
But I want to tell you the Bible calls it adultery.
And the Bible says that no adulterer will be in heaven.
We don’t realize what a vile and terrible thing it is to break the marriage vow with that type of a sin.
I know it’s old fashioned.
I know that’s out of date, but that’s the teaching of the word of God and the word of God never, never, never, never changes.
It’s the same. God hasn’t changed in all these centuries.
Do you think that God is changing his whole nature to accommodate himself to your sins?
No, he’s the same yesterday today and forever.
I’m the same God that hated the sins of sodom and Gamarra hate the sins that we are committing today in the countries of the world that I travel in because it’s worldwide to have an affair is said to put spice in a marriage.
I read that the other day in some newspaper, it’s a sin against God and it breaks the marriage vow.
And many of you are asking Well, what can I do to help my marriage?
The first step is to turn your life over to Jesus Christ. Let him come into your life.
You say, well, how do I do that?
We’ve seen hundreds and even thousands here in Tora come to Christ, be willing to repent of your sins.
That’s the first step. Realize that God loves you in spite of your sins, in spite of your failure.
He loves you and he’s willing to forgive you, but you must be willing to repent.
And that word repent means to change, change your mind, change the direction of your life and determine that you’re going to bring your life under the lordship of Christ.
If you failed in the home, if you failed at being a parent, if you failed at being a husband or a wife or an obedient child in the home, surrender your life to Christ tonight and let him come into your heart and help you to be the right kind of a husband or wife or the right kind of a child.