Enemy would love to deceive us into enduring life, not enjoying life, having Children, not enjoying them, being married, but not enjoying it.
Having a house job opportunity, but always some reason we’re not happy. We gotta get to that next thing.
Then we’ll enjoy life. Now you have to learn this principle. There is joy in your journey.
There are things in your life right now that you can enjoy if you’ll have the right perspective.
Well, God bless you.
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But I like to start with something funny. And I heard about this man named Bubba.
He lived way out in the country and it was a stray dog that kept showing up at his house.
His wife said, Bubba, you have to put the dog in your truck, take him out in the woods and drop him off.
That’s where he lives. Bubba drove him a mile down the road.
Dropped him off when he came home, the dog was walking up the driveway, practically beat him back.
This happened again and again, his wife said, Bubba, you have to take him way out, drive him around in circles.
Get him mixed up. Bubba drove him an hour away. Criss cross roads. He’s never driven before, dropped him off.
Two hours later, he called his wife from the trunk said, did the dog come back?
She said, yeah, he’s walking up the driveway now. Bubba said, do me a favor. Put him on the line.
I need directions, say it like you mean it, this is my bible. I am what it says.
I am. I have what it says. I have. I can do what it says I can do today.
I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess, my mind is alert. My heart is receptive.
I will never be the same in jesus’ name. God bless you.
I wanna talk to you today about joy in the journey too often.
We’re gonna enjoy life when we accomplish a goal.
When the kids are raised, when we get the promotion, joy, when I lose £10.
When I get through this problem, then I’ll be happy. Our joy is always in the future.
When we cross the finish line.
The problem with this approach is there’s always some reason we can’t be happy, something’s going on that’s causing us to be stressed uptight.
But the key is to find joy in the journey. You’re not there yet.
You’re still waiting for things to improve, still believing for the promise.
But in the meantime, you’re enjoying where you are while you’re on the way to where you’re going.
If you’re so focused on the finish line, what’s not working out this trouble at the office, then you’ll miss the beauty of this day.
You won’t laugh at the funny thing your child does. You’re too busy.
Gotta get them dressed, feed them breakfast, get them to school. You won’t enjoy your spouse.
You’re too busy trying to fix them. Focused on their flaws. When they improve, then you’ll have fun together.
I know people that hurry through the week. They don’t like going to work.
Dread driving in the traffic, have to put up with this cranky coworker.
They can’t wait till the weekend gets here. How much of your life are you missing?
Trying to get to the next thing?
What you think is better then you can be happy, try a different approach.
Instead of rushing through what you don’t like trying to get to the next goal.
Slow down and find the joy in the journey. Look at all the good things in your life right now.
Don’t take for granted the people God’s given you to love.
They may not be perfect, but neither are you and Joel, this husband. He gets on my nerves.
I bet you get on his nerves. Too. Some people would love to have your husband.
They’d give anything to have that man. I see a lady holding up her husband’s phone number.
That’s how she’s gonna get joy. But these Children, there’s so much work.
All I do is cook, clean, run them places.
Do you know how many people are not able to have Children? They do anything to have those kids.
What you see is common is really uncommon. What we think is ordinary is really extraordinary.
Well, it’s Monday, I have to go to work, try a different approach. I get to go to work.
I have a job. I have income. I have resources. I can’t stand driving in this traffic.
It’s so stressful. How about I get to drive in traffic. I have a car, I have opportunity.
Well, I gotta clean the house again today. That’s the story of my life.
You know, I get to clean the house. God’s blessed me with a place to live.
If you’ll have the right perspective, you’ll find joy in the journey, not in my dream house yet.
But Lord I’m grateful for this apartment haven’t met the right person yet. But Lord I’m grateful being single.
This place I’m working is not where I want to end up. But Lord I’m grateful that I’m employed.
See, the enemy would love to deceive us into enduring life, not enjoying life, having Children, not enjoying them, being married, but not enjoying it.
Having a house job opportunity, but always some reason we’re not happy, we gotta get to that next thing, then we’ll enjoy life.
Now you have to learn this principle. There is joy in your journey.
There are things in your life right now that you can enjoy. If you’ll have the right perspective.
Paul said in Philippians, whatever things are wholesome, good pure.
If there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things, it’s significant that he used the word.
If if there be any virtue, he was saying you have to look for the good in your family.
Look for the good in your spouse. Yes, you can point out 23 flaws.
How about looking for the good in that challenge? Maybe a lot is coming against you.
Look for the good God is sustaining you. People are encouraging you. This one area has improved.
If you’re going to find joy in the journey, you have to look past all the wrongs and see the rights and sometimes it’s just the fact that you shouldn’t still be here.
The opposition should have taken you out. The sickness should have defeated you.
How you were raised should have held you back. But you can say, Lord, thank you that I’m still standing.
Thank you that I still have air to breathe. Thank you that you’re still for me.
Luke 24, Jesus had been crucified on a Friday that Sunday, two of his disciples were walking from Jerusalem to a city called Emmaus.
And you can imagine how discouraged they were.
The man they had followed, given their life to was now gone.
And as they were on this journey, talking about everything that had happened, the wrongs, the betrayals, the heartache, Jesus came up and started walking with them, but they didn’t recognize who he was.
He was in a different form. Jesus asked what they were discussing and why they were so concerned.
They said in effect, where have you been? Haven’t you heard?
They’ve taken our Messiah and crucified him, how we’re without a leader.
Jesus began to talk to them about what the prophets had predicted, how he had to come and be crucified and that he’d be raised on the third day verse 27 says, he explained what the scripture said about him.
What an incredible moment this was, they’re walking with Jesus who’s just risen from the dead, who’s helping them to understand passages from the Old Testament that prophesized what would happen, how this was all a part of God’s plan.
Well, it was a seven mile walk from Jerusalem.
They were about to arrive in, it was late at night.
They asked Jesus to stay with them as they were eating dinner.
Jesus broke the bread and their eyes were open. They recognize who he was and Jesus suddenly disappeared.
But think about that long walk with Jesus.
They were so focused on what didn’t work out this great disappointment. Their leader is gone.
That they didn’t recognize the miracle in the moment all they knew was life was unfair. This wasn’t right.
They were discouraged yet. That whole time the risen savior was in their midst.
How many times on our journey are we not recognizing what God is doing was so caught up in the stress of the day dealing with this problem, had a setback in our finances that we don’t see all the good things, how God is sustaining us, favoring us, guiding us.
We’ve been through challenges, but in the midst, our Children are still healthy, we have opportunity.
The right person showed up when we needed them.
Don’t get so focused on what’s wrong that you don’t recognize what’s right.
It’s interesting that these disciples were on a journey with Jesus.
One principle it shows us is there was joy in the journey, but they didn’t recognize it.
How many of us are seeing the joy in the journey? We see the traffic. We see the struggle.
These Children are a lot of work. But are you seeing the joy?
Could it be like these disciples that God is doing great things in your midst?
But you don’t see it. The scripture says God, open their eyes and suddenly they recognize Jesus.
My prayer is God open our eyes, help us on the journey of life to not miss the miracles of the moment, to recognize your goodness, to be aware that you’re at work.
I don’t want us to come to the end of life. Like, man, I didn’t enjoy my twenties.
So stressed raising kids, I didn’t enjoy my thirties. Pressures of work were so bad.
Didn’t enjoy my forties had financial difficulties. My fifties, I had that health issues.
My sixties, we had inflation, the pandemic, the Texans couldn’t win.
We look up and our life has passed, but we didn’t enjoy it.
It’s always something, some problem, some person, some delay. You could be in a great moment right now.
But like these disciples, you’re letting what went wrong and so focused on where you’re trying to go that you’re missing all the good things.
They looked back and thought man, Jesus was walking with us, he was explaining the scriptures.
We were right there in his presence. We should have stopped taking it all in and enjoyed it.
Instead, they were just trying to get to a trying to get past the disappointment.
I’m not saying that we don’t have difficulties. There’s pressure, stress.
What I’m saying is there is good in every season. You have to find joy in the journey.
Sometimes like these disciples, we don’t see it till it’s gone in the moment. We don’t recognize it.
But later we look back and think that was a great time. We talk about the good old days.
Can I tell you you are living in the good old days? There are great things happening right now.
Great memories, great people, great opportunities. Don’t do like them and miss it.
Few years before my father passed three of my sisters along with their spouses, their husbands, they worked on staff with us here at Lakewood that was four of the five Children.
My brother Paul hadn’t come to join us yet.
On Sunday nights during church, I would look down the row and see Lisa and her husband and Tamara and her husband, April and her husband.
Then Victoria and myself. I would tell Victoria often we are living in the good old days.
This is an amazing time where we’re all here together. Somehow I knew not to take it for granted.
Uh It’s just my family. No big deal. I recognized that it was unusual.
We made the most of that time and over the years people moved on, started churches, fulfilling their calling.
But the people in your life are not always going to be there. Don’t take them for granted.
I like to accomplish dreams, achieve goals. Go fast. I have to remind myself what I’m telling you.
Slow down and enjoy the journey.
It’s easy to live, busy, stressed, upset, but today is a gift from God. Don’t just endure it.
Enjoy it. 20 years from now, you’re gonna look back with fond memories of today.
You’re gonna think those were the good old days raising my Children, working for that company, going to Lakewood.
But I wonder if you’re living in the good old days and you don’t recognize it.
You’re up tight, focused on what’s wrong, trying to achieve those dreams. You know, start finding joy in the journey.
When our son, Jonathan was seven years old, we were about to leave for church and I was in the garage putting things in the car.
And I said, come on, Jonathan, let’s go.
And he had one of those label makers that we used to use.
You hold it in your hand and you select the letter on the down, you click it, you can make labels.
He was so focused on what he was doing. I said, Jonathan, we’re gonna be late.
We have to go said, OK, dad just give me another second. I said, we don’t have a second.
He kept working and working as fast as he could. I was getting more and more up tight.
He finally finished, pulled the label out, ran over and handed it to me.
It read Best Dad in the world. I thought, oh, we have a little more time.
Let’s make a few more of these. Somehow. I wasn’t in a hurry anymore. Many times.
It’s the small things in life that give it real meaning. Yes, it’s great to accomplish big goals.
Get married, have a child, move into the new house. Those are mountain top moments. Some people live for them.
That’s when they’re gonna be happy. But those are few and far between even the heroes of faith.
Moses parted. The Red Sea delivered the Israelites out of slavery. That was amazing. But what was it?
A month of his life? What about the other 120 years?
You have to learn to enjoy the journey while the Red Seas aren’t partying, while you’re waiting for the next big things.
You’re enjoying the small things. You’re finding the good in your everyday life.
Taking time to laugh with your Children, taking a walk with your spouse, seeing the sun rise in the morning, hearing the birds singing.
Not too busy, not too stressed to enjoy the simple things in life.
I learned a lot of this from Victoria’s side of the family. They love to laugh.
They take time to enjoy each other.
We were having lunch one Sunday a while back after church at our house and Victoria’s mother was there, Georgine Victoria’s brother and all their family.
A whole bunch of us. And we sat down together 30 minutes later, I was finished eating.
I got up and went to the back to watch the ball game.
Three hours later, I watched the whole game.
I came back and they were still sitting at the table in the same seats.
I said, are y’all eating dinner now? Victoria said, no, we’re still sitting here from lunch.
I looked at her kind of puzzle.
She said, Joel, we’re just enjoying each other thought, man, I can enjoy my brother Paul in a couple of minutes.
But you know what they were doing, finding joy in the journey wasn’t a mountain top moment.
They weren’t celebrating a birthday.
Sure, they had challenges, difficulties, but they took time to see the good to enjoy what God had given them.
Sometimes we’re waiting for these big miracles. But there are miracles in the mundane.
The fact that you’re alive is a miracle. You have people in your life to love. That’s a miracle.
You have your health, sound mind opportunity.
Let’s not be like those disciples and miss the moment because it looks common.
Uh It’s just my family, Joel. We see it as just another ordinary day.
But the fact is there are no ordinary days. Each day is a gift from God.
He could have chosen anyone to be alive at this time, but he chose you and me.
We can see all the wrong.
What we don’t have live pressured, stressed or we can focus on the good.
We can appreciate even the simple things in life.
Some of my fondest memories growing up is when we were kids, my parents used to take us to the airport to ride the trains that went from terminal A to terminal B this was before they had all the security.
We’d go on and all ride for free. We thought we were at Disneyland. Just a simple thing.
Yet I talk about it today. They were finding joy in the journey.
The scripture says God was in their midst but they didn’t recognize him.
How many times has God been in our midst? But we didn’t know it.
We were waiting for the Red Sea to part. We were waiting for Goliath to fall.
We didn’t know he’d be walking on the road to a, that it would seem ordinary common.
2007, a major newspaper did an experiment to see how people perceive the uncommon in a common environment.
Would they recognize talent out of context? Would they appreciate music? Not in a concert hall?
They took this world renowned violinist, a former child prodigy, one of the most amazing violin players in the world.
People had spent hundreds of dollars for a ticket to hear him play in some of the most distinguished venues.
His violin was worth $4 million.
1/17 century Stradivarius, early one Monday morning, he went to the subway station during rush hour, had a ball cap on jeans, tennis shoes looked very ordinary, stood over by the wall and began to play.
He performed six of the most well known classical pieces In 43 minutes. 1100 people passed by only seven paused to listen.
Most just went about their day, busy, preoccupied, they heard the music but it seemed common people play out there all the time.
The researchers came to different conclusions.
One being when something uncommon is in a common place, we don’t recognize it.
Maybe the people were too busy in a hurry, focused on other things.
But it begs the question if we’re in such a hurry that we don’t recognize one of the best pieces of music ever written by one of the best players in the world on one of the finest instruments ever created.
What else are we missing? What else are we rushing by? Not appreciating.
There are things in your life that may seem common.
It’s an ordinary environment, but there’s nothing ordinary about your Children.
Nothing common about being able to breathe the gifts God’s given you the doors. He’s open.
When Jesus showed up and walked with the disciples, he seemed common.
Just another man joining us wasn’t until later. They said we knew there was something special about him.
Don’t wait till later to recognize the uncommon in your life. This is where the Israelites missed it.
God brought them out of slavery, defeated Pharo and his army. Now they were headed to the promised land.
They were out in the desert.
On this journey, there were no hotels, no grocery stores, pharmacy, water towers yet God provided for them.
Day after day, the scripture says their clothes and shoes did not wear out for 40 years.
You would think they’d be grateful. They’d see the hand of God.
But all they saw was what was wrong. We’re not in the promised land.
Where are those huge clusters of grapes? Where are those houses that we didn’t build? That were promised us.
If you don’t find the joy in the journey, you’ll find all the negative.
You start complaining, they didn’t recognize how God was sustaining them, how he was giving them. Provision seemed common.
We have this man every day. No big deal. God was in their presence, but they didn’t see Him.
They complained so much that God finally told them that they were never gonna make it in.
Only their Children would go into the promised land.
Like with them, much of our life is spent waiting, waiting for the promise, waiting for our health to improve, waiting to meet the right person.
We see the destination. We know what God put in our heart. Now we’re on the journey.
The key is what are you seeing on the journey? What’s wrong? How long it’s taking?
Why did they leave me? If you do like them and focus on all the negative doubt will come.
You’ll start complaining and miss God’s best.
What you may not recognize is God is on that journey with you all along the way.
He’s doing things sustaining you, protecting you, providing for you, ordering your steps, don’t do like them and not recognize His goodness.
Take time every day to thank him for what he’s doing. Lord, thank you that you brought me this far.
Thank you that you’re making my crooked places straight. Thank you for fighting my battles.
You can complain or you can praise but you can’t do both. If you complain, you’re going to remain.
If you praise you’re going to be raised.
This wealthy father wanted to show his seven year old son how the poor people lived.
They left their big fancy house and drove out in the country. Spent the night on a farm.
Just a little wood frame house. No TV, no fancy furniture, not even carpet, just a farm house.
But at night, this family would go out on the porch, tell stories, laugh and sing after a day and a half on the farm.
They headed back home. Father wanted to see if his son had learned his lesson.
He asked him very curiously how he enjoyed the trip. Son said, oh, dad, I really loved it.
He said, well, did you see how poor people can be? The son said, yes, dad, I did.
He said, well, tell me exactly what you mean. What you learned.
The little boy said, dad, I learned that we have one dog at home and they have four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our backyard, but they have a stream with no end.
We have fancy lanterns on the house, but they have the stars. We watch TV, at night by ourselves.
But they sit around and laugh and have fun together. The dad was shaking his head. He couldn’t believe it.
The sun finished up by saying, dad, thank you for showing me how poor we really are.
Here’s the point. It’s the simple things in life that bring the most joy.
You may not have a lot of resources. But if you have family, you’re wealthy.
If you have your health, you’re wealthy. If you can look up at the stars at night, you’re wealthy.
It’s not whether you have a lot or a little. It’s, are you finding joy in the journey?
Are you recognizing God’s goodness, seeing the blessings along the way or you focus on what’s wrong?
What you didn’t get, what you don’t have waiting to reach that destination, then you’ll be happy.
You’re missing the beauty of this day. Make the decision.
You’re gonna enjoy where you are while you’re on the way to where you wanna be.
Not there yet, but I’m happy where I am not married yet, but I’m happy being single.
Have some challenges, but I’m enjoying life while God’s working it all out. Don’t put your joy on hold.
Paul said in Romans, let us be full of joy now, not tomorrow. Not when you reach the goal.
Not when the problem turns around. Now is the time to be full of joy.
A young lady I know is one of the kindest, most friendly people you’ll ever meet any time you’re with her.
She always brightens your day. But a few years back, she was diagnosed with cancer. It’s very serious.
She began taking the treatment going through all the tests and there were major ups and major downs.
But every time I would see her, she was the same visiting her in the hospital, Victoria and I’d walk in, she’d have that big smile, that joyful laugh we leave there, encouraged.
There was an older woman that was a patient where they both took treatment every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
She asked the nurse to leave the door open so she could see out into the hall.
The nurse asked why she said because that young pretty girl is going to come by and wave at me.
Her smile is what keeps me going.
Even in my friend’s most challenging hour, she was still joyful being a blessing.
Recognizing each day is a gift. Sure.
She could have been bitter depressed when I get well, then I’ll be happy.
But she found joy in the journey. She saw the goodness of God in the midst of the adversity.
100 years from now, we’re all gonna be gone. Don’t live another day, defeated, discouraged, get your joy back.
I’ve heard it said it’s not that life is so short. It’s that we wait so long to begin.
We’re waiting for this challenge to be over, waiting to raise the kids, waiting for the promotion, waiting for retirement.
My prayer again, God open our eyes help us to see the uncommon in everyday life, to appreciate the people you’ve given us to value the simple things.
It’s very powerful when we can look back and say I enjoyed my twenties. I enjoyed my thirties.
I enjoyed my forties. I didn’t endure life. I enjoyed it.
Let’s not be like those disciples and have God in our midst and not recognize it right now.
He’s sustaining you, providing for you, giving your breath to breathe and do your part. Find joy in the journey.
If you’ll do this, I believe and declare you’re gonna live happier. Have better relationships.
See more favor those negative situations will turn around and you’ll reach the fullness of your destiny in jesus’ name.
And if you receive it, can you say Amen?
I’d like to give you an opportunity to make Jesus the Lord of your life.
Would you pray with me? Just say Lord Jesus, I repent of my sins come into my heart.
I make you my Lord and Savior.
If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got born again, I encourage you to get into a good Bible based church and keep God first place Victoria.
And I’ll be right back to speak a blessing over you.
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