Just Say No

You can’t say “no” without Christ. Billy Graham preaches on temptation in this 1987 message from Fargo, North Dakota. Watch more #MondayNightClassics every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern.

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Now I want you to turn with me to First Corinthians.
The ninth chapter beginning at verse 24.
No, ye not the which run in a race, run all but run. Only one receives the prize.
So run that you may obtain and every man that strive for the master is temperate in all things.
Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown but we an eternal incorruptible crown.
I therefore so run not as uncertainty.
So fight on, not as one that beat the air, but I keep my body under subjection.
Lest that by any means when I preached to others, I myself should be disapproved.
And then the third or the 12th verse where of the next chapter?
Where let him to think if he stand, take, he bless, he fall.
There has no trial or temptation or trouble taken you.
But such as is common to all men, but God is faithful who will not allow you to suffer to be tempted above that you’re able but will with the temptation or the trial also make a way to escape that you may be able to bear it, young people today are faced with so many problems, especially peer pressure and the hardest word that young people have to say today is the little word.
No, whether it’s drugs, whether it’s picking up a cigarette, whether it’s illicit sex, whatever it is, it’s the hardest word.
Do you say? No? When the peer pressure comes, when the hormones begin to rise, when the excitement is there?
Yes, we’re all tempted, but there’s no temptation taking you.
But what everybody else has had you say, well, did, did Jesus have temptations like that?
Of course, he did. He said he was, it says he was tempted in every point like as we are yet without sin.
Because the moment you’re tempted, God provides a way to escape, there’s a way out. He provides it.
But you have to make the decision to go that way.
And when you make that decision, the Holy Spirit is there to help you and give you strength and courage.
And then another man, another person in the Bible, the young person was named Daniel and Daniel 18.
It says Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s meat, nor the wine which he drank.
Daniel was a young man with a purpose.
His motivation to serve God had come early because the great king of Babylon had come over to Jerusalem and captured Jerusalem, captured the king and captured a few young Jewish men that he wanted to take back to Babylon and train them in the language of Babylon and all the ways of Babylon so that they could be of help to him in running his empire.
And one of them was Daniel and he wanted young men with whom there was no blemish well favored and skillful in all wisdom and cutting and knowledge and understanding science.
He wanted him to be proficient in physics and all the scientific studies of that day.
And during the period of training, they brought the finest foods for Daniel to eat.
But Daniel wanted the simple lifestyle. He wanted to eat ordinary food.
He didn’t want to eat the rich food off the king’s table.
And he asked the head of their training program, his professor, if he could do it and the professor hesitated.
He said, if the king finds out about it, I’ll lose my head.
So Daniel said, well, why don’t you give us 10 days and let’s try it out.
And so in 10 days they fed them just beans and water and the things that Daniel was used to eating simple food and when the 10 days were finished, Daniel and his friends were stronger and better looking than all the others that they’ve been feeding all those fine foods to from the king’s table.
How different from those who can’t wait until they get away from home to live it up because Daniel had been taken 1500 miles, who would know who would care if he drank the wine and got drunk and ate the finest and lived a soft lifestyle.
Daniel was far away from home, but he lived the life that he had learned to live as a young man of God.
He could have gained popularity by indulging and this early no, in his youth prepared him for the big No.
When he had to face the den of lions, when he had to face belts of the king, he said no, because he had learned in the very beginning, we defile ourselves by overeating 11 times.
We’re told about over indulgence of food in the Bible, over drinking alcohol, drug, taking too much television.
Jesus said in Luke 21 34 take heed to yourselves lest that any time your hearts be overcharged with surfing and drunkenness in the cares of this life so that the day of death comes upon you unaware or the day of his coming comes upon you unaware.
Paul said, make not provision for the flesh to fulfill the lust. There are Peter said for the time passed.
We walked in ness, lust, excess of wine, revelings, banqueting and abominable idolaters. What about you?
Do you live a disciplined life? Do you live an organized life?
Have you got your life organized and disciplined to the point that you can say no to those things that you know that are hurting your body?
You see the Bible teaches that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
God doesn’t live in a church building. God lives in you.
And a and a group of us called the church and assembly make up the church and we use the building and its facilities to meet in.
And so it’s a sacred building. It’s a holy building as the temple was in Jesus day.
The synagogues were considered, but the real temple of God is your body and yet you harm your body, by the way, you treat it.
And then another man in the Bible, a young man that said, no, that changed. History was Joseph.
He, he was the boy that his father loved the best, apparently.
And the other Children became jealous and envious of him. And so they said, let’s kill him.
And Reuben said, his oldest brother said, no, let’s put him in a pit and we’ll just leave him to die.
They are and uh father will not know the difference.
But then some Ishmael lights came along and they said, let’s sell them and make some money and then his blood won’t be on our hands.
We’ll let the Ishmael lights take him.
So they sold him into slavery to these Ishmael lights and they took him on to Egypt and they sold him to a man by the name of Poti that was in the cabinet of Pharaoh.
And he became a slave, strong, handsome and the Genesis 39 tells us of the temptation of Joseph.
And he said no, because Potiphar wife was a beautiful woman and a sexy woman.
And she came to him and she said, Joseph, come and lie with me, go to bed with me.
I’ve been wanting you ever since you’ve been here. And now all the men are gone.
My husband’s away, come with me. And he said, no, I will not do this great wickedness.
Your husband has treated me well. And I would sin against my God if I did that.
And she begged him.
And finally she became angry and he rushed out of the house and left his coat behind and she began to scream and yell, she yelled rape.
He tried to rape me.
And when her husband came home, he had Joseph thrown into prison.
Joseph said no, but then God was with Joseph in the prison.
And you all know the story of how God used Joseph and made him the prime minister of all of Egypt and help save again his family later on a long story which I don’t have time to tell tonight.
But most of you know it, I’m sure now the Bible teaches that sex is not a sin.
God gave it. It’s a gift from God. It’s the wrong use of sex.
That’s the sin God gave you the ability to make love.
But within the bonds of matrimony, not outside adultery is wrong.
That’s when two people who are married and then fornication, unmarried people. It’s wrong.
It’s a sin. And I know that the tremendous urge, especially when you see it at every counter where they sell books and magazines, you see it on the television, you see it in the movies, you see it everywhere and the whole atmosphere is saturated with the idea of sex.
How do you say?
No, I don’t believe young people today can say no without Christ, with Christ and with the Holy Spirit giving you supernatural power, you can say no, but I’ll tell you it’s tough.
But the marks of a Christian are self control and self discipline.
Paul wrote to Timothy and said, keep thy self pure.
He said, flee, flee youthful us run when that temptation comes run.
He also said, but I keep my own body under and I bring it into subjection.
What about you? Do you do that Joseph did?
And God greatly used and blessed Joseph and he’ll use and bless you if you’ll say no.
But suppose you say yes to any of these things. What are you going to do?
All right. We’re all born with the seed of sin in our hearts, in sin.
Did my mother conceive me said David?
But you see these people made their decisions when they were young and God gave them the power to say no to the things that were wrong, whether it’s a lie, whether it’s jealousy, whatever it is and we’re all sinners.
We’ve all broken God’s law, we all deserve judgment and we deserve hell.
But that’s why Jesus Christ came. Do you know why He came? Because the Bible teaches God is love.
God loves you. And if you were the only person in the whole world, God would love you and he would love you so much that He would give his son to down the cross for you.
Even if you were the only person that had sinned against Him, in spite of our sins, in spite of our bad things, God loves us.
And that word love is a love far beyond human love, a guppy love.
God’s love, supernatural love, love beyond anything that you have ever known. God loves, you don’t ever doubt it.
And if you don’t get anything out of these three days, I hope you’ll get one thing that God loves you and God is willing to forgive you of all your sins.
He’s willing to wipe the slate clean. He’s willing to fix it.
So just as if you had never sinned, that’s what the word justification means.
Just as if you had never sinned, that’s what the blood of Christ does.
When the blood was shed on the cross, that blood cleanses from all sin.
I deserve judgment and I deserve hell, but my sins are gone.
My judgment is passed, it was taken on the cross.
But Christ, when God laid on him, the sins of us all. I’m not going to go to hell.
I know that I’m going to heaven if I died right now, I know I’m going to heaven because of the promise of the word of God that if we confess with our mouth, the Lord Jesus and believe in our hearts that God raised him from the dead, we shall be saved.
I’ve done that. I know that I’m saved, but as many as received Him to them, gave him the power to become the sons of God, even to them that put their faith in Him.
Then there was another person who made a decision to say no when he was young and that was Moses, it says by faith, Moses when he was come to years refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter.
He chose notice. He chose rather to suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season.
Yes, you can have pleasure in sin.
You can have a good time in getting drunk on drugs at a sex orgy.
You can have pleasure. But it’s short, it’s for a season, it’s soon gone.
And Moses decided that he would rather choose God’s way.
We think of Moses sometimes as an old man with a beard, but it was in his youth that he made the decisions that brought him to greatness.
And there’s a difference in the Bible between pleasure on the one hand and joy on the other.
He that loves pleasure is a poor man.
Said, the writer of Proverbs Paul wrote to Timothy and said, but he that liveth in pleasure is dead.
She that liveth in pleasure is dead while she lives, you’re living physically but dead.
Spiritually, your heart is dead toward God. You can be a dead man.
I’ve just written a book on death called Facing Death. It will come out this fall.
and I’ve gone into some of these things, I’ve gone into such things as euthanasia and suicide and all of these things that are that people are talking about today.
What’s right and what’s wrong and how do we get through these things?
The Bible says in second, Timothy Paul wrote, we’re lovers of pleasure, more than lovers of God.
Pleasure. The things that appeal to our flesh and our lust. Joy is something else.
It runs deep and no matter what the weather, what the climate, what the troubles, what the difficulties are.
There’s a joy because the joy is produced by the Holy Spirit supernaturally in you so that the whole world can fall in on you.
And there’s a joy that’s always there.
We have about 15 or 20 springs on our place at home and all of our spring seem to go dry, but there’s one that never wavered and that’s the way with joy.
No matter what happens and how the drought may come, it’s always there produced by the spirit of God, but pleasure is different.
That’s temporary. It only lasts a short season. What about you?
Bless her to you said Jesus, when men shall hate you and when they shall separate you from their company and shall reproach you and cast out your name is evil for the son of man’s sake, rejoice ye in that day and leap for joy for behold your reward is great in heaven for, in like manner.
Did they the son of man?
And they did the same thing to the fathers and the prophets.
He says, when you have suffering for Jesus sake and somebody makes fun of you at school.
Leap for joy, be joyful about it.
You’re doing it for Jesus sake, but rather rejoice because your names are written in heaven, is your name written in heaven.
If it is rejoice, if it’s not, you better weep until you do find Christ. These things.
Have I spoken unto you that my joy might remain in you and that your joy might be full.
You can have Christ’s joy. Do you have his joy?
My brother encountered all joy when you fall into different temptations and trials, Moses Cho chose the joy of following God rather than all the pleasures of Egypt.
Because Moses was heir to the throne of Egypt, many great things Moses did in Egypt, a mighty man.
He gave it all up to follow God out into the desert and to go with the despised people that were the slaves in Egypt.
Then there’s Jesus, the Bible says, tempted at all points like as we are yet without sin, that the devil took him into the wilderness and tempted him three times.
And Jesus was hungry. He hadn’t eaten 40 days and 40 nights. He was tired. He was thirsty. Yes.
But you said he was God, he was different. Oh, no, he had divested himself of all those supernatural powers.
At that moment, he met the devil just like you do as a man.
And the devil said, if you are the Son of God, command these stones and turn them into bread, you can feed the whole world, there’ll be no hunger in the world.
You can solve all the social problems in the world right now, Jesus, you do that.
And did you know that Jesus never argued with him?
He never debated him. All he did was quote scripture.
He said it is written, man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeded out of the mouth of God.
And then the second temptation came when he said, if thou be the Son of God cast thyself down for it is written.
He shall give his angels charge concerning the and in their hands, they shall bear the up.
You see the devil had said jump out, make a big spectacle and people will believe you don’t have to go to the cross.
You don’t have to down the cross as you’re planning to do to save the world, you can do it.
And they’ll all believe when they see the angels catching you in mid air.
But Jesus said it is written again. Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God.
And then the third temptation was all these things.
Will I give you if you’ll fall down and worship me.
He said, look at the world, all the world, all the oil, all the gold, all the power in the world is yours.
And Jesus didn’t dispute with him that he didn’t have the power to offer it because he’s called the God of this world, the prince and power there, the prince of this world, the devil has tremendous power, tremendous authority and tremendous wealth and he can offer you everything there is.
If you just worship him a little bit, just nod your head and say, all right, devil, I’ll go with you a little way.
Anyway, Jesus didn’t do that.
He said, get behind me, Satan, it’s written, thou shalt worship the Lord thy God and him only shall thou serve.
So the Bible says after those three temptations, the devil left him and the angels came and helped him note those three things, Jesus quoted scripture.
He was filled with the spirit, he was in the will of God.
Are you willing to say tonight no to the temptations of the devil and yes to the call of Christ who tells you repent of your sins.
That means to change your way of living. Follow me.
Oh, but you say Billy, I’m a member of the church and I’ve been baptized and I’ve been confirmed.
Yes, that’s a wonderful thing.
But it would be wonderful if you would reconfirm your confirmation, it would be wonderful if you would rededicate yourself to the things that were promised at baptism and at confirmation, it would be wonderful to come and say, I want to rededicate myself to you, Lord or for some of you as 30 some percent did last night will say I’m receiving you for the first time.
I really want to come to Christ. Now I want my sins forgiven.
I don’t want to take a chance of dying without God. Do you know Christ?
Have you received him? You say Billy, what do I have to do? Three things?
First, be willing to change your ways, change your mind. That’s called repentance in the Bible.
The second is by faith, you receive Christ. You don’t work for it. You don’t buy it.
It’s a free gift and you receive it.
And thirdly, you’re willing to follow him Bible, reading, prayer, witnessing, living, letting love shine through your life.
That’s what it means to follow Christ.
That’s what it means to say no to the things the devil would like for you to, I’m going to ask you to make that choice tonight.
I’m going to ask you to do something.
We saw hundreds of people do last night and we’ve seen people on every continent and over 60 countries.
I’m going to ask you to get up out of your seat and come in front of this platform and say tonight, I want Christ in my heart.
I want to know, I want to be sure I want to rededicate my life to him.
I want a new power in my life, a new joy in my life.
I want forgiveness of my past mistakes and failures. I want to start on a new road tonight.
I’m going to ask you to get up out of your seat.
Hundreds of you young and old alike, whatever your background, you may be a member of the best church in town or you may not be a member of any church, but God has spoken to you tonight.
There’s a little voice inside speaking to you. Maybe making you feel uncomfortable.
That’s the voice of the Holy Spirit and without his drawing and speaking and convicting, you’ll never come to Christ.
So you get up and come right now.
Hundreds of you just get up out of your seat and come and stand here quietly and reverently, we’re going to wait on you as many are responding here at Dakota Field in Fargo.
So you can make your decision for Christ where you are just call the number on your television screen right now to you that have been watching by television.
God has been speaking to you and you see here scores and perhaps even hundreds of people that are coming to make their commitment to Christ here in North Dakota and Minnesota, you can come to Christ right where you are in your room at a bar or wherever you happen to be, say yes to Christ.
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