Beyond Ourselves – Dr. Charles Stanley

Based on 2 Corinthians 1:8-11, this message focuses on the life of Paul and how he understood what it meant to be pushed to the limits of his strength. It describes how he went beyond human limits to survive and triumph over difficult circumstances.

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It is in the love and the wisdom of god that he has chosen not to tell us many things in life.
One of those aspects of life he does not reveal those things that are going to take place in the future of our life that are difficult, trials, hardships, tribulations, persecution, whatever it might be, He has chosen not to tell us ahead of time about these things.
Now once in a while, he may give us some signal in our life about something that is going to take place.
But most of the time, he doesn’t.
This is why it is so very important that you and I are continually growing in our Christian life so that whenever these things take place in our life, we’ll be ready for them.
The person who gets saved and says, well, That’s good enough in life for me at this point.
And I’m just gonna drift now. What they don’t realize is this.
There are those experiences in life that are beyond our control, beyond our strength to endure.
And if we don’t know the key to that endurance, we will tumble and fall sooner or later.
And so it is so very, very essential that you and I continually grow in our Christian life.
Now people face difficulties and circumstances answers like these in all kinds of ways.
For example, there are some people who face difficult in hardship, and the end result is They lose their faith.
They become angry. Hostile. Sometimes anger to a god began to be cynical about life.
Grow old, isolate themselves, and die in a cynical attitude.
On the other hand, Here’s someone else who can go through the same circumstance in life and hear the end results.
They are richer in their understanding of the ways of god.
They are stronger in their faith in the power of god.
And they’re overwhelmed in their heart by the love of god.
Now what is the difference in the way these two people respond? Here’s the difference.
One of them knows the source of their strength, and the other one does not.
And that is the title of this message today, the source of our strength.
And I want you to turn to a passage of scripture, written by a man who understood so very, very well what it meant to be pushed to the limits of his strength and how to go beyond our human limits and endure and survive and triumph over the most difficult circumstances in life.
Second Corinthians chapter 1, verse 8.
The apostle Paul, understanding what it meant to be pushed to the limits of his life Here’s what he said.
He doesn’t tell us exactly the incident that took place. All the details.
He’s writing to the Corinthians just to remind them of the kind of hurt and suffering and trial and hardship that he had been suffering.
And he says in verse 8, for we do not want you to be unaware, brethren, of our affliction, which came to us in Asia, that we were burdened excessively beyond our strength so that we despaired even of life.
Indeed, we had the sentence of death within ourselves in order that we should not trust in ourselves, but in god who raises the dead.
Who delivered us from so great apparel of death and will deliver us, he, on whom we’ve set our hope, and he will yet deliver us.
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Now the apostle Paul wasn’t a man who was a stranger to difficulty hardship and trial, but a man who was very, very aware knowledgeable and new, not only what it felt like, but who learned how to respond to the most difficult and trying of circumstances.
So I simply wanna begin by saying that there are circumstances in life that require strength beyond what we have humanly.
There are those circumstances in life that require strength beyond what you and I have humanly.
And let’s look at the apostle Paul for a moment.
And I want you to notice in this passage, though he doesn’t tell us exactly when this took place or where are the a particular incident, it could have been the riot in Ephasis or some other incident.
I want you to notice the words he uses to describe this be caught for this reason.
It may be that you’re one of those persons who’s going through one of those trials, and you said, but wait a minute.
Don’t tell me about the apostle, Paul, The apostle Paul lived about 2000 years ago, and things have changed.
Let me tell you what has not changed. Sin hadn’t changed.
The devil hasn’t changed, temptation hasn’t changed, hardships, trials, suffering, difficulty attacks. None of that’s changed.
It’s just a different day in which it is going on.
And so the Apostle knew what he’s was speaking of here.
And all of us face those circumstances in which we feel we are pushed to the limits, and we have we have to go beyond our human energy strength.
Whether it is intellectual, moral, spiritual, physical, emotional, whatever it might be.
So as you think about it in your own life, let’s look at it this way.
You may be one of those persons who says, you know, I have been so wrong and so wronged by the same person for so long.
I don’t have the strength I don’t have the power to keep on forgiving someone who keeps on wronging me.
Or you may be one of those persons who is in a working environment that is so anti god and anti Christian, you just think I can’t keep hanging in here.
In this kind of atmosphere, trying to be what I ought to be doing what I ought to be.
I just don’t have the strength to live in this kind of environment day after day on my job and the constant criticism Because I believe the Bible, believe god, go to church and try to live a Christian life.
All you may be in the kind of environment or atmosphere in which the temptation is so strong, so prevailing, so overwhelming, you just think I absolutely cannot stand.
I just don’t have the strength to endure this.
Now There are many people who live in those circumstances every day, and how do they survive?
God’s people, how do they survive?
Well, when you look at this patch of scripture, you have to also conclude this.
And that is that there that the strength required, listen, the strength required to enable us to endure those circumstances beyond our human power and strength is available in the person of Jesus Christ.
Now I know that may be a simple or a simple, a simplified statement that the power, the energy required to enable us to face these things triumphantly and victoriously is to be found in Christ, but it is.
It is to be found in him.
And the apostle Paul understood that he understood that well, that’s why he says in this passage here, he says indeed we had the sentence of death within ourselves in order that we should not trust in ourselves, but in god who raises the dead.
Now listen carefully. Here is a basic a basic foundational principle for teaching us how to walk in the most difficult trying circumstance of life, And even though there may be dips in moments of discouragement, all periods of wondering, god, where are you?
There is a solution. There is a way It is god’s way.
It is the best way, and it is the only way to survive and endure triumphantly victoriously without losing our peace and losing our joy.
And the apostle Paul tells us what it is.
He says the source of our strength is in the person of Jesus Christ.
What did he mean by that?
Simply this, that when you and I received by faith, The lord Jesus Christ is our personal savior.
The Bible says that Jesus Christ came to live on the inside of us in our spirit.
In the presence of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit lives inside every single believer.
And what is he doing living out through us the life of Christ?
Now who Jesus Christ was is who he is today, the same yesterday today and forever.
What he did in those days he’s doing today, and the same power and strength that prevailed in his life in those days still still prevails in him today, and he’s living on the inside of us.
So that, listen, all the strength and all the power to endure, survive and keep our joy and keep our peace is not only available to us today.
It is already abiding in us in the very presence of Jesus Christ.
You see, god doesn’t have to sin down from heaven, something to enable me to face anything It is already my possession and your possession.
So god has indwelt in every single believer enough strength and enough power that you and I can face every single circumstance of life no matter what it is.
Now listen to what Paul said.
He said in evisions, be strong in the lord, and in the power of his might.
He said to Timothy in 2nd Timothy chapter 2.
He said, be strong in the grace of the lord Jesus Christ.
And then the apostle Paul made a statement that all of us have quoted many times.
He said, here’s what I’ve learned.
He said, by this principle that I wanna show you, he said, I’ve learned that I can do all things.
Listen to that. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
He didn’t say I can do anything in all things and everything.
He said, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Did Paul always know that? No.
You know how Paul learned that lesson?
He learned it the same way you and I have to learn it.
And the way we learn that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us is to get thrown into those impossible situations where we feel the crushing pressure and the absolute total inability in in a totally incapacitated to change our circumstances and learn learn the lesson that when our limits have been exhausted, we can go beyond our limits because of a strength and supernatural divine power given to and available to every single believer.
We learned it by getting thrown into it.
We learn it only in that way because if you only listen to it from someone else or reading the book, you will never know and have a about the adequacy of Christ in your life until you have to experience that.
And so the apostle Paul knowing exactly what was happening.
And as he looked at his own life and shared how god had worked in his life, what is he saying?
He’s saying, there is a power. There is a strength.
He said, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Now once in a while, somebody will misinterpret that passage.
There is a limitation on what you and I can do.
That limitation is clearly defined in that passage when he says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Where does the strength come from? It comes from the person of Christ.
Our relationship with him What is the limitation? Here’s the limitation.
God is not going to strengthen you and me to do anything that is not the will of the father.
So he’s not going to empower us and strengthen us to do something. It’s not his will to do.
And so what does he do? Whatever god calls you to do.
If it’s in your occupation, if he’s called you to a certain occupation and a certain type of work, That may be very difficult.
If he’s placed you there, he is going to enable you, strengthen you, and equip you to do every single thing required of you, god will enable you to do it.
Now listen carefully. That’s why Running out on a difficult situation is never, never, never legitimate for the child of god.
It is a confession to the world that our savior is inadequate.
Now let me qualify that by saying, I would never say that a person who’s living in a situation where their life has been threatened by someone because of some kind of horrible physical abuse.
That is a situation That is an exception.
There may have to be an exception there, but I’m talking about difficult to hardships, trials, tribulations.
We don’t like the way folks treat us. We don’t like the way things happen.
And sometimes here’s a person, for example, in a job, and you’ve been working there a long time for the same company.
And you get passed over and raised and promotion, and the job is given to someone else over here who’s far less qualified.
Does not make as much money as you do, hasn’t been there.
As long as you’ve been there, and they just pass over you, and you say, well, why should I hang in here?
How do I have the strength and the power to be just as enthusiastic about my job when I am so ill treated.
That is the kind of situation you don’t run out on because you’ve been ill treated.
Now listen, Here’s what I want us to see.
Look if you will in, um, in 2nd Corinthians 12, and I want us to notice a conflict.
What appears to be a conflict here? You recall that Paul said in, uh, in ephesians chapter 1.
He said, oh, ephesians chapter 6. He said, be strong in the lord.
He told Timothy be strong in the grace of our lord, Jesus Christ. Now listen, it looks like a contradiction.
On the one hand, he’s saying be strong in the lord, On the other hand, he says in 2nd Corinthians chapter 12, look at that.
He says in verse 5, on behalf of such a man speaking of himself, will I boast?
But on my on my own behalf, I will not boast except in regard to my weaknesses.
He says, you wanna know what I wanna boast of. He says, I boast about my weaknesses.
Look in verse 9. He said he discovered that god’s grace is sufficient to him, and he said again, in verse 9, Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses in order that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
And verse 10, he says, when I’m weak, I’m strong. Now what kind of double talk is that?
I mean, wait a minute, Paul. On the one hand, you’re commanding the strong in the lord.
On the other hand, you’re saying, but I love to be weak. That doesn’t even make any sense.
Until you understand, here’s what Paul is saying. Paul says, here’s what I discovered. It’s the most amazing thing.
He said, I have discovered that when I’m weak, And I get weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker.
He says, well, I’m down here and my weakest moments He says, here’s what I discovered.
It is in those moments, I feel the greatest surge of this supernatural divine energy, either intellectually, either emotionally, morally, spiritual physical.
He says, He says in that weakest moment of my life, that’s when I get the biggest surge of the power of god working in my life.
So he says, here’s what I’ve discovered.
I discovered instead of despising weakness and feeling out of control and helpless, which none of us like, None of us like to feel out of control.
No one wants to feel helpless. Nobody likes weakness. I don’t like that anymore than anybody else.
No one likes that. But you see, here’s what Paul discovered. He says, here’s what I’ve discovered.
If I am willing to experience great weakness, then I can experience great strength.
Watch this. Watch this. You listen and say amen.
To the degree, I listen to this, to the degree I am willing to be weak to the same degree I’m willing to experience strength, which says I have to deal with a pride problem.
Because you see, no one likes to admit I’m weak. I’m frail.
You see, today’s world says be strong, be beautiful, be handsome, be rich, be be be be all of these things.
You know what? God says? Be poor in spirit.
Full of weakness, humility, and the world hates that. They can’t stand that. They despise weakness.
You know what? God says? He says, I love it.
Now I don’t like it very well, to be honest, and probably you don’t need it.
If you’re honest, none of us like to feel weak out of control and helpless.
But when you and I learn that it is in those weakest moments, when we cannot We’re out of control.
We can’t do anything about it.
That’s when god is free to do his greatest work and empowering and strengthening us.
That’s when we become the most equipped, the most enabled, to suffer, to experience, to do it, no matter what the trial may be, we can walk through it.
Not with a sad face, not having a pity party, not complaining and mourning, though sometimes we’re tempted to do that, but he says, no matter what’s going on, there is a power and strength available to the children of god.
Now if someone else had said that in the scripture somewhere along the way that didn’t make a big strong impression.
I was maybe we could say, well, you know, this, that, and the other about him, but you can’t say that I’m a apostle Paul.
Because here’s a man who experienced it now.
If you think about the character and the nature of this strength that he gives, listen, he says the strength that he gives to all of us Whatever we are facing is unsurpassable.
It is unsurpassable.
One of our problems is we want we we somehow we can’t believe that god would love us enough or that he’s interested enough in you as a student in your classroom, are you on your job to be genuinely interested enough to, I mean, to focus his divine attention upon your circumstance and provide exactly what you need for that moment this day, that day, the next day, the week next month, the next year, and to keep you in that situation.
We just think, well, god, why? And you see, this is the promise of god.
My god shall supply what? All your need according to his riches and glory. Listen.
1 of the riches of the grace of god for you and me is the power and strength to live, to face, to endure, to survive, and to do so victoriously and triumphantly.
God doesn’t want you and me failing in the Christian light.
We all do at times, but he wants us to learn the truths to know how to walk through difficulty.
And as we said before, the only way we learn is get thrown into it.
Most people just want you to give them a book give him a passage, preach a sermon. Got it.
No. You haven’t. Because I’ve discovered in my own life, many truths that I learned, I thought, well, I’ve got that one down.
And then the lord sends me a big test along the way, and I realized, no.
I don’t have it down. I thought I learned it. No.
What I did is I heard it and I understood it, and I believed it, but it didn’t learn it.
How do I learn it by getting thrown in the fire? That’s how you learn it.
And you see, the people who avoid the fire and try to avoid the value experiences, they don’t wanna feel weak, That’s just it’s and and I agree it is in a total opposition.
Everything human nature cries out for. Human nature within us cries out to be strong.
Manate your cries out, uh, to be courageous.
He may let your cries out to be fit, ready, capable, adequate, and meet every situation in life.
God says, you wanna know how to do that? Tell you how. Get real weak.
The absolute, totally helpless, dependent upon me. That’s the way you experience the greatest strength.
Now he called it unsurpassable power. Look if you will in Ephesians chapter 1.
When Paul was writing there in his prayer for the Ephesian Christians, here’s what he prayed for them.
Efission chapter 1, he says in verse 18.
I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened so that you may know what is the hope of his calling.
What are the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints?
And he says, here’s my here’s another part of my prayer for you.
He says, I want you to experience and to know What is the surpassing greatness of his power toward us?
You know what he’s saying? He says the power that almighty god the strength that he makes available for his children is unsurpassable.
You know what that says?
That Satan cannot throw anything in your path with all of his satanic power to match.
Listen to this, Satan cannot throw anything in your path with all of its satanic power to match the supernatural divine power available to the believer in the person of Jesus Christ, Satan’s power can even begin to match it.
This is unsurpassing power. And secondly, it is available to every single believer.
He says that is the gift of god. When you receive Jesus, you got it.
And it comes in a very simple way. It comes through the introduction.
It comes through the confession acknowledgement, and this is where I think We have to ask ourselves the question.
Am I do I know how to have this power and strength released in my life when I’m facing this?
And the answer is yes. It’s very simple.
He didn’t make it complex because he wanted his whole to understand it and all to be able to experience it in our life.
And here’s what he says. And you’ve caught it already.
How do I get this strength and power least in my life?
Acknowledging that I’m absolutely, totally helpless. God, if you don’t do it, I it won’t it won’t work.
You have to do it, lord. I can’t do it.
The confession and acknowledgement of weakness and helplessness, and we don’t like to do that.
When’s the last time you ever said to a friend?
I feel so weak and so helpless and so absolutely totally out of control.
There’s not a thing in a world I can do in my situation, not one thing.
Have you been willing to humble yourself and acknowledge that to someone?
Or do you wanna keep up keep up the appearance? I can handle it. I’ve got it under control.
That is arrogance and pride, and it there is no blessing that comes through that.
It is to get listen, Paul said, I’m weak. He said, I came here to preach.
I came here to preach in weakness and fear and trembling.
Have you been willing to say to someone I feel so weak and so inadequate?
You see, listen to me carefully now.
You can tell god that in private but act strong in public, and I don’t think it works.
I think you have to say to someone. There was yeah.
I think that there is there is a requirement of of a humbling of ourselves to say, I am inadequate.
I am weak, and god, I can’t.
And I’m gonna tell you, I would walk out here a single Sunday feeling like I have it under control, and you wouldn’t see me coming through those doors.
Now I’ll tell you why. Because I feel like the old Apostle Paul, every time I walk out of here, it’s fear weakness and trembling.
Because I’m sure back down to somewhere in my life, I walked that thought I had under control, and the lord slapped me flat on my face.
And I am grateful to god. Listen. Weakness. Listen. For the growing child of god, weakness is invited.
We understand the power of weakness We understand the power of humility.
I don’t mean some fake, humbleness. I’m talking about genuinely relying upon him. The acknowledgement of our weakness.
And just saying to him, god, I’m relying upon you. I cannot you.
If you don’t do it, it’s not gonna happen. And thirdly, simply believing that he’ll do what he said.
He says, my god shall spoil all you need according to his riches in glory.
When I need it, how long, ever how long I need it, how much ever how much I need?
Anything that god does less than that, or off timing or out of out of a step with my needs, that’s not god.
I don’t know about you.
But I’m telling you, I’ve tried it both ways and the first way doesn’t work.
You can’t do it in your own strength and survive. And there’s a better way.
If you wanna become rich in the understanding of the ways of god, if you wanna become stronger in your in your faith and the power of god, And if you wanna become overwhelmed and experiencing the love of god, the way to do it is to acknowledge your weakness and helplessness throw yourself upon god, resting him, and trust him to be in you, and through you everything you need at this moment in your life.
And my friend, no matter what your circumstance, this I can absolutely assure you of, Jesus Christ, the son of god, who is your savior.
If you had trusted him as your personal savior, who dwells on the inside of you will release all the power and the strength necessary to enable you to face what you’re facing, victoriously, triumphantly, with great joy, through it all.